(This goes for men & you are a Friend and you want More, start by making small advances. Say something like, “you look hot with your hair down.” You can even send that in a text saying, “I saw that photo that you put up on FB from last night. You look hot with your hair down.” Then, when you see each other in person, if her hair is down say- “you wore your hair down…” as a statement. And smile. Don’t say anything else about it.
WHY? You are making small but impactful comments in a purely positive and slightly sexual way that will make her think- which is different from how you normally talk to her. In complimenting her hair in a certain way, she may start to find herself thinking about how you like her hair down. She even might subconsciously take the time to style it and straighten it before she sees you, and not even realize why she is putting in that extra effort for you. When people put effort into something, they are emotionally investing in them. Even unknowingly.
You are planting little seeds that will hopefully root down and grow up. You are dropping little thoughts in her mind that will unexpectedly pop up and make her start to see you from a new perspective.
When you have your next alone time outing scheduled, bring her flowers and say, “I wanted to make you feel special tonight.” Don’t make a big deal out of it, but also don’t marginalize it. Have and certainty in your is the most a person can have. Then take her somewhere that is or meaningful to her and say “I remember you telling me that this place means a lot to you, so I wanted to take you…”
The point is that you want to be She will how thoughtful you were. She may even tell her what you did and they may tell her how you are and how you treat her so much better than all of the other guys she dates.
DON’T PUSH TOO HARD! It could push her away. Don’t lean in for a Let her think about you and about how great and different you were this time. Let her want to want more of that and of you. ❤️ #gesture #friendzoned #memorable #important #dating #remember #attitude #thoughtful #confidence #kiss #certainty #sexy #friends