HOW TO DEEPEN YOUR SEXUAL CONNECTION •
How many times do you have sex, just to have that great feeling of an orgasm, to reduce stress or because it’s time to have sex again? Often what happens is that sex starts to become routine and far less passionate. What we then crave is connection, novelty, mystery and safety at the same time. •
Here are 3 steps to •
The key is communication. A great sex life requires talking about it. How are you to know what your partner really likes if they don’t tell you? Of course, you can watch and see how their body responds, which takes great awareness, but they may be thinking even if it feels great to add something different, or to go slower/faster or softer/firmer with what you are doing. So why not ask afterwards what they enjoyed the most and what felt great.
Ideal is to talk about it beforehand and find out what you both would like to experience. Also, don’t be shy to communicate what feels great in the middle of it and what you would like to feel more of. Sensual dirty talk can go a long way, just sayin ;) •
We all want to feel safe. Especially when it comes to sex, a place where we get naked, raw and intimate with someone else. Creating a safe space to explore is so important, I can’t stress that enough.
Do you know what is an absolute ‘no’, a ‘maybe’ and a ‘hell yes” for you? Sexual exploration is fun, and it not only feels good but that way your sex life doesn’t become stagnant where it leaves you both feeling starved.
Understanding your boundaries is important for safe sex. If you have a ‘maybe’ about something, remember that’s not a ‘yes’. To practice safe sex, you want it to be a ‘yes’ at all times, so you can fully open up to explore and put all of your trust into your partners hands, so the magic can happen. It is important ask yourself, what will turn a ‘maybe’ into a ‘yes’, and only once you have figured out what a ‘maybe can turn into a ‘yes’, you go ahead to explore. •
Surrender follows after safety. Once there is safety we can fully surrender into our pleasure. Creating pleasure in the bedroom...
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