We often judge people, Judge, stranger, judge our friends. Judge the people that we love.
But here is my plea.
Especially when it comes to people whom you have known for a long time.
Especially when it comes to your friends and your family.
When it comes to strangers too.
Always remember this one thing.
We ALL make stupid choices and do stupid things.
All of us at some point in our lives, have done and will do something so ridiculously dumb.
But what i ask of you to remember is this.
I hope that we do not judge the person, but instead judge the action instead.
Treating someone badly, cheating on our partners, mass calling an ex who already has someone else.
Sometimes, we do things against logic.
Sometimes, emotions take control and mistakes happen.
We all do stupid crazy shit, and we are allowed to call each other out on that.
But at the end of the day,ESPECIALLY if they are your family and your friends. Please do still love them.
Because as much as you might think that they did something wrong, as much as you are disappointed, they too feel shit about it.
They too are regretting it.
And more than you can ever know, they are probably going through a very hard period of self-blame and shame.
Have you not done anything crazy and stupid?
I know i've done a ton of those.
Thats why i know that, thats when you need your friends and family most.
Cause the whole world will be blaming you, and you need a refuge.
So for those who have done something stupid and crazy recently. It is okay. It has been done, you can't take it back anymore.
Don't blame yourself or wallow in regret any longer.
I know it was tough. I know you wish you can take it back.
Let it go, be better.
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